Showing posts with label resolutions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label resolutions. Show all posts

Friday, January 10, 2014

Before & After: My Craft & Clothes Room

A few days ago I posted my 4 Simple Goals for 2014. It was exciting to post, because it forced me to start working toward them.  After a bit of reflection, I chose to start with number 2, because I love decorating and the idea of carving out a space just for me to create and lounge and work and play sounded amazing. It took 2 days and its not quite finished yet – I still need to add photos and art - but already I love it - and can’t seem to leave it.

My space is an odd shaped room in the back of the apartment. We have two rooms this shape, both with bathrooms coming off of them (B uses the other one for his hobbies, which can be quite messy). Originally, this was our bedroom, simply because that’s where the bed was when we moved in, but a few months ago, I decided to dismantle the bed and move it to a different room and that’s when this space became mine.



The first thing I did was paint the walls a bright white and replace the heavy mustard curtains with sheer white ones. I love how white brightens up a space and makes colors pop. It just inspires me.

Next, I hauled all the furniture I wanted into the room. The space is quite big, but not shaped well at all. The wall with the window is actually curved, so nothing can lay flat against it. I also have two giant, ugly wardrobes that I must keep in the room, because, as much as I hate them, they serve the necessary purpose of holding my clothes.

Once I had everything in the room, I began experimenting with arrangements. This took the better part of a day, with B occasionally wandering in and laughing at me as I tried to manhandle the enormous wardrobes into various positions. Finally, I managed to make them take up as little space as possible, and began the fun part – drilling.

Both B and I are so grateful he taught me the skills needed to drill into concrete. Thinking back to just 6 months ago, when I would have had to ask him to hang every shelf, picture frame and screw, makes us both shake our heads in disgust. That was never fun for either of us. Plus, there is just something so powerful about holding a pulsating drill in your hands and crushing through concrete. (I am WOMAN, hear me ROAR!)


The final step was to organize the mess that is my life. I boiled old Ikea candles and took the glass cups to hold bits and pieces. I found some fun bowls at a market and sorted my earrings and coins and rings. I draped my necklaces, scarves and hair accessories on hooks and hung all my dangly earrings on the window screen. I sorted my embellishments, strings and such into baskets a friend gave me.  The room began to look bright and colorful and fun. I threw myself on the couch and admired the effect. B, somehow sensing the end was near, stuck in his head and whistled.

So cheers to me. I have successfully produced a space I feel happy and creative in – now it's time to get messy.

Friday, January 3, 2014

Four Simple Goals for 2014


Happy New Year!

I follow only one blog religiously. This blog is full of creative ideas, projects, advice and more, its called A Beautiful Mess and is written by two Midwestern sisters who seem to overflow with ideas. I love the feeling of inspiration I get when I read their posts.

A few months ago they posted their 4 Simple Goals challenge. The idea was simple:
Choose a timeline and create 4 simple goals for yourself. These goals are supposed to be based on pleasure, happiness and activity, not so much on results. Then complete them.

This idea really resonated with me, but like so many things, it became buried under work, deadlines and life, and before I knew it the months had flown by and I had all but forgotten it. Then the New Year was upon us and I was surrounded by people making resolutions (I love resolutions, by the way, the thought that I can always be better fills me with hope) and the idea flitted back to the front of my brain.

So today I start anew. I have decided, in lieu of resolutions, to make 4 Simple Goals, which are basically the same thing. Here they are in no particular order.

1.     Post 3 blog updates every month. Posting to my blog is something I enjoy, a way to keep a public journal of our adventures, but somehow, when all my time fills up, it becomes a low priority. And then, because I have stopped, I feel defeated, and so I don’t pick it up again. But that stops today. For the next year, I will post 3 updates, every month, 36 by the end of the year, exciting!

2.     Create a space to be creative (and messy!) I love decorating spaces, our apartment, my classroom, anywhere. I always tend to start with the spaces seen by others - the living room, the kitchen - then I move on to spaces I share with B - the bedroom, the laundry room - but never have I got around to creating a space just for me. I have a room but it is ugly and uninviting and serves only as a place to comb my hair and get dressed. My goal is to turn it into a space I want to be in. A space I can blog and grade and scrapbook in. A space that makes me happy and creative and that I can leave a complete mess and no one will be inconvenienced by. (Goal completed! Hooray!)

3.     Be active. Find time to move. I want to be active again. I miss Northern California for the activity it provided. Swimming, snowboarding, hiking, ultimate frisbee, softball, longboarding, riding – all of this was done with friends and all of this led me to be active and healthy without even trying. But here in the desert, I rarely go outside, most activities with friends involve eating or talking and I have grown lazy and unfit. I want to change that. I am going to make a conscious effort to move. Run the stairs, hit the gym, join softball, whatever it takes to feel healthy again.

4.     Carve out time for friendships… new and old. Somehow in all the activity of the last 3 months, I have lost touch with friends. It used to be that friends were my number 1 priority, something I loved, but lately I have been feeling very solitary, preferring to snuggle up with a good book and the kitten. This isn’t a bad thing, I love the pleasure of my own company, but I miss friends. So my final goal is to make time and nurture my friendships. Talk to those in California; spend time with those in Kuwait. Make it special and memorable and enjoyable. Friends keep me young and happy and free.

I wish you luck on your resolutions and goals as we enter into a new year and I will definitely keep you posted on mine. xo.

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Turning 30


Turning 30 really wasn’t that big of deal, in terms of freaking out and feeling old. However, turning 30 + 1 month, led to me rethinking my recent decisions of subsisting off take-out food, coke light, and 5 hours sleep.

So in a late New Year’s / Oh-God-I’m-30 resolution, I have decided to eat healthier, drink water and try to go to bed by 9:30 on school nights. As an added bonus, I also decided to start moisturizing my face (already seeing a difference) and to get out and do more stuff in Kuwait.

The last resolution is why I have been MIA for the last few months – been out gathering cultural experiences, but too busy to write about them (and I have been just a little bit lazy). That is over now, though.

I am inspired. And I miss you all. So I will be writing. Soon.

My 30th birthday: loving husband, snowy slope and a board strapped to my feet. Not a lot to complain about.